Agony Aunt is finally here so click ‘Read More and Comment’ to read the problems and questions that Agony Aunt has answered this week.
Next week I will be releasing ‘Part 2’ so keep your eyes peeled for that.
Thank you to Buttons who was Agony Aunt this month.
I’m Sure My Boyfriend is GAY!!!
so, ive been in a relationship with a guy for a yr and a half and i’m 99% sure he’s gay, he’s always going round to his male friends house and then coming back EXHAUSTED and wont let me go near his u know what till he’s had a shower…however he promised he’d marry me, and i take promise’s very seriously
i don’t see why any of that would make him gay!!! maybe he just wants to make sure he’s fresh down there for u? possibly he’s actually at another girls house when he says he’s at his “friends”???? regardless, if you don’t trust him u shouldn’t be talking about marriage and instead ur concerns? there’s no way to prove he is or not and accusing him of it constantly isn’t going to help. so all i can suggest is for you to talk to him…
He Wants Me, But I’m Afraid of Him
One of my ex boyfriends is sending me a lot of messages that are getting kinda mean and he wants to be friends/give it another go but I’m really scared of him as he’s said some really horrible things that BADLY affected me in the past – and he could take it out on me IRL too and turn my friends against me… what can I do??
well firstly if you’re thinking about going back there id advise not to, even if he’s changed, the fact you think he could turn ur friends against him means you’re not going to be able to trust him? could u not just ignore him/block him for messaging you and tell ur friends what he’s been like in the past. if they’re true friends they will support u with it 🙂
Their Relationship is Ruining Our Friendship
My friend and me are kinda drifting apart which SUCKS – this always happens when he gets a new girlfriend! How can I tell him without looking totally needy?
it depends – have you spoke to them or tried to rectify the problem? could you come to a mutual agreement where you spend one day a week doing something together alone? how about inviting their girlfriend to come along with other friends too? if ur friend isn’t making the effort, i would look elsewhere and show em you don’t need them to have fun.
Cash Strapped Valentine’s
Okay so my main problem right now is that mine and my boyfriends anniversary is on the 7th of Feb, right before Valentines! we have a luck of funds and not sure what we should do. This will be our 4th year together.
Should we go out for our Anniversary or go out for Valentines? Valentines we would be going to the cinema as a film comes out that day that we want to see or do we go out for our anniversary? if we did go, it would just be a normal meal out that we can do any time! Unable to do both because of money so it’s either 1 or the other. Tricky decision!
You could do something on the valentines that is a joint valentines and anniversary date? eg go see the film on Valentine’s and pretend it’s for your anniversary too! on the other hand, you could go out on your anniversary instead as that’s supposed to be more important than valentines and Valentine’s Day is always really busy! you seem to have already made up your mind though as you said you could go out and have a meal at any time, so i suppose it’s a case of what’s more important; spending your anniversary doing something or going to see a film you will both enjoy.
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